If It Doesn't Fit Don't Force It

Everything that looks like it should fit may not. When I came up with this topic I had two things in mind.

Fashion: if your shirt keeps riding up every time you move...it doesn't fit, don't force it!! If that middle button keeps spreading and threatening the person sitting across from you...it doesn't fit, don't force it. If you can't breathe when you sit down because those jeans are so tight...they don't fit, don't force them. Often we try to make things fit even though we know how ridiculous we look and feel. We simply really like the piece in question so much that we want to make it work anyway. Just let it go. There is another fabulous piece out there somewhere just waiting for you to realize that it needs you as much as you need it.

Life: sometimes we like someone so much that we go out of our way to force a fit in our lives that really in all actuality doesn't fit. Examine things fully and ask yourself is this person really suppose to be in this place in my life? That's not to say that they shouldn't be in your life you just may be trying to force them into a place that they don't fit. Friendships can be hard to figure out sometimes and it's great to have real people around you to help you to see things that you are blocking out on your own.

This life tip is compliments of a fabulous day out with my friends on Friday. Thanks Demetrik Brown and Anthony Sherwood. You guys may not know it but you inspired me more than I can openly express!!!

Remember being a diva is more than a title, it's a way of life!!!!